Karakter Manusia Berdasarkan Status Facebook

Facebook Status

Ngupdate status di Facebook mungkin sudah jadi makanan sehari-hari kita ketika lagi berstatus On-Line. Mo apa aja, dijadikan status. Ada yang penting, ada yang “sok penting”, dan ada juga yang nggak penting sama sekali..hahahah..

Tapi, Kalau dilihat fenomena update status di Facebook tsb, manusia-nya dapat dikategorikan sebagai berikut (Just for Fun kq…he3…) :

1. Manusia Super Update
Kapanpun dan dimanapun update status. Status nya ga panjang2 amat..Tapi terlihat bikin risih, karena hal-hal yang gak terlalu penting juga dipublikasikan.

contoh :
“Lagi makan di restoran A..”, ”
Dalam perjalanan menuju neraka..”,
“Saatnya baca koran..”, dsb..

“penting” banget kek-nya yak..???

2. Sok tau..
Sotoy tenarnya..

contoh :
“pemerintah selalu memanjakan rakyatnya.. bla…bla… bla..”

Uih, kek-nya jago banget dah, padahal ga tau apa yang ditulis..ha3

3. Manusia Melankolis
Biasanya dia curhat di status. Entah karena ingin banyak diberi komentar dari teman-temannya atau hanya sekedar menuangkan unek-uneknya ke facebook, tapi biasanya orang tipe ini menceritakan kisahnya dan terkadang menanyakan solusi yg terbaik kepada yang laen..

contoh :
“Kamu sakitin aku..lebih baik aku cari yang lain..”,
“Cuma kamu yang terbaik buat aku..terima kasih km sudah sayang ama aku selama ini..”, dsb..

Curhat kq di status..??? kliatan banget lonely-nya…

4. Manusia Tukang Ngeluh
Ga pagi, ga siang, ga malem, ga dikasih ujan, ga dikasih panas, ga dikasih uang, ga dikasih makan, pokonya semuanya dia keluhkan..

Contoh :
” Jakarta maceeet..!! Panas pula..”,
“Aaaargh ujan, padahal baru nyuci mobil..sialan. .!!”,
“Males ngapa2in.. cape hati gara2 si do’i..”, dsb..

Nggak ada kerjaan banget kek-nya, ngeluh-ngeluh aja…

5. Manusia Sombong
Mungkin beberapa dari mereka gak berniat menyombongkan diri, tapi terkadang orang yang melihatnya, yang notabene tidak bisa seberuntung dia, merasa kalo statusnya itu kelewat sombong, dan malah bikin sebel..

contoh :
“OTW ke Paris ..!!”,
“BMW ku sayang, saatnya kamu mandi..aku mandiin ya sayang..”, dsb..

Buat apa sih gini-gini..??Biar semua orang tau..??emang klo orang dah tau, trus..???

6. Manusia Puitis
Dari judulnya udah jelas. Status nya selalu diisi dengan kata-kata mutiara, tapi ga jelas apa maksudnya. Bikin kita terharu? Bikin kita sadar atas pesan tersembunyi-nya? Atau cuma sekedar memancing komentar? Sampai saat ini, tipe orang seperti ini masih dipertanyakan..

Contoh :
“Kita masing-masing adalah malaikat bersayap satu. Dan hanya bisa terbang bila saling berpelukan”,
“Mencintai dan dicintai adalah seperti merasakan sinar matahari dari kedua sisi”,
“Jika kau hidup sampai seratus tahun, aku ingin hidup seratus tahun kurang sehari, agar aku tidak pernah hidup tanpamu”, dsb…

Aduh, sok puitis, padahal nyiplak quote dari manaaaa gitu…ha3

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Figuring Things Out – The Real Life..

Right Place, Right Time

Life after graduate from college? I wish I could tell you..!!

My life, evolves..

It never turns out to be what I exactly expected.

It’s full of surprises, full of adventure, also, lots of problem too..

Sometimes, I found a hard truth, real truth, sometimes an inevitable truth..
Yeah, that’s life. If nothing else, its life..
It’s real, and sometimes the fact, it hurts..

But it’s sort of all we have, right..??

Yeah, When I see clearly from everything in my real life for now,
I can understand,

Great moments of my life won’t necessarily be the things I do,
They’ll also be the things that just happen to me.
I’m not saying I’m not take action to affect the outcome of my life.
I’ve tried so hard in every aspect of my life, you know..
But, I always believe about something that, on any day,
I could step out the front door and my whole life can change forever.
For example,
A few months ago, when I have to attend an interview to this company where I’m working right now. Simple interview, and out of nowhere, I got my dream job..

You see,
The universe has a plan..And that plan is always in motion.
A butterfly flaps its wings…and it starts to rain.
It’s a scary thought.
But it’s also kind of wonderful.
All these little parts of the machine constantly working,
making sure that I end up exactly where I’m supposed to be,
exactly when I’m supposed to be there.
The right place…at the right time. And, Here I am…

So, there you have it..
There’s a lot of little reasons why the big things in our lives happen.
If I had known then where all those little things were leading me,
and how grateful I’d be to get there..
Because somehow, I ended up in the right place at the right time.
Especially when you consider how easy it end up there..
And, as a result, my life would never be the same..

Yeah, I’m just excited to see things that are waiting for me in the future, you know.. 🙂

What an Amazing Weekend..

Here I Am

Well, after got holiday for a few days, weekend to home sweet home, where I can just relaxed and enjoyed the moment, far away from job & work complex, and forgetting all problems for a while, then, I feel so “new”..
Yeah, I really needed this actually…

I’ve met my family, seen my old room, and guess what, all stupid picture still on the wall, 🙂 played football in my hometown, Laugh on stupid memories from the childhood with my old friends..
What a great time..

When I was going back to Dumai for work again,
I was followed with song from Bryan Adams – Here I am…
It’s really fit as my life soundtrack for now.. 🙂

Here I am..This is me,
I come to this world so wild and free…
Here I am, so young & strong,

Right here in the place where I belong..

It’s a new world,
It’s a new start,

It’s alive with the beating of young hearts,

It’s a new day,
It’s a new plan,
And the future is waiting for me,
Here I am…

I felt fresh, and ready to continue my journey..
Self Development & Continuous Learning, The chapter has continued..
So young, and So hungry..
So hungry for knowledge, Life experience, & Meaningful contributions…
Time to accept responsibility for the future with less complaining…
Here I am…

Mom & Dad, I’m Coming Home..


Finally, I got holiday time for couple of days…
And, I’m coming home, tonight…

God..It’s been more than a year that I haven’t seen my home.
Yeah, Home..The only place in this planet that I can consider as heaven.
A place where I’ve been raised with warm love of wonderful family..
A place where I was born and grew-up, studied and played, cried and laughed..
A place with thousands memories..

You know, whatever things that I’ve been through right now,
inevitable struggling of job complex, or stressful process for Self Development,
I always know one thing for sure, FAMILY COMES FIRST..
That’s why, When I have a time to come home, I go.
Even, just a little bit of time.

Before I went away to college far away from my hometown,
I’ve made promise to myself.
That, I wouldn’t let down my parent’s hope,
In academic things, character, religion, and financial.
To be a kid that have been gifted by God to my parents.
To be a kid that took part as God’s presents to my parents.
Not just a kid that is throwing his life to nothing.

Mom & Dad..Look at me, look at your son for what he has became right now..
Please, enjoy the moment and the pride, You both deserve it..
Son that you’ve raised through pain, tears, joy, and love..
When I open the door’s home, and meet them,
the first thing that I want to do is to cry on their hand,
with a heart of fully respect and so thankful..
So they both know, How much I love & Miss them,
and how much I feel grateful to have parents like them..

Mom & Dad..
Deep inside my heart, I do really hope,
You both always feel grateful to God, because God gives you a son like me..
That’s one of my basic principle for my way of life…
Love you, Mom.. Love you Dad…

My Role as Piping / Pipeline Engineer in Oil & Gas Industry

From here :

Wisuda Armet

To here :


My father said to me once: “Life is a journey.
And the road we travel has twists and turns,
Which sometimes lead us to unexpected places, and unexpected people.”

Yeah, I really understand that. Lots of unexpected things happen to me. A few years ago, I was just no one, just a kid from small town.

But now, you see, after I’ve graduated from Bandung Institute of Technology (ITB), God gives to me my dream job as Piping / Pipeline Engineer in EPC Oil & Gas multinational company. As Piping / Pipeline Engineer, currently, I am being assigned to the field, involving on Project at LBO Plant of Pertamina RU II in Dumai, Indonesia.

The picture is an example of my photo when I’m standing in front of Piping System at project location where I have to sketch the modification based on Code ASME B31.3 and Client (Pertamina-SK) requirements.

Piping Systems

Well, what can I tell you about Piping / Pipeline Engineer’s life? Before answer that question, I would like tell you about Piping System first. The piping systems are an essential and integral part of our modern civilization just as arteries and veins are essential to the human body. In Oil & Gas industry, Piping System is carrying crude oil from oil wells to tank farms for storage or to refineries for processing. You can see the picture below to get the idea about Piping Systems application.

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Self Awareness..


For every being cursed with self-awareness,
there remains the unanswerable question:
Who am I?
How do I “connect” with others?
There are nearly seven billion people on this planet.
Each one, unique, different.

We struggle to find meaningful connections to one another.
Maybe, We are the caring friend…
or, The loving father…
The doting mother…
The protected child…

We fight and we love in the hope that somehow,
together, we can understand our significance in the universe..

But in the end, no one can share our burden.
Each of us alone must answer the question…
“Who am I?”
“What does it mean to be alive?”

And in the vast infinity of time,
“how do I matter?”

This quote is from Heroes 3rd Season Eps 24.. This quote strikes me at some points. Yeah, of course about myself, my future, and my world. By my world, it means, my faith & believe to God, my family that I’m really grateful, my friendship circle with easy judging attitude, my job that makes me struggle to understand, or, wondering the girl that I can introduce as my wife someday.. And, how do I matter for all..??

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Simple..It is What It is..

It is what it is.. Accept it

At the end of The Unforgiven, Gene Hackman laments to Clint Eastwood, “I don’t deserve this—to die like this.” Eastwood’s classic response: “Deserve’s got nothing to do with it.”

The same can be said for the way we look,
the way we live our lives,
the way we are treated by others,
the money we’re born into/not born into,
the talents we have/don’t have…
Life is unconcerned with “deserve”..!!

Life is… what life is.

You know, I see people fighting this reality at every turn, and the results of the struggle are ugly. You don’t believe me? Just try to consider the people you know in a professional context: do you know someone…(below?)

  • Not getting the job because s/he is too proud to ask for help? (”I deserve the job that I can find by my own!”)
  • Limiting his/her career by refusing to engage in politics? (”I shouldn’t have to play games!”)
  • Walking into a crisis by refusing to mitigate foreseeable risks? (”People are supposed to follow directions, so that won’t be a problem!”)

Deserve..?? Should..?? Supposed to..??

As far as I am concerned, to be both successful and happy, the only prerequisite is to accept what is. Plans made on the basis of what should be are doomed to fail. Judgment—in the form of phrases like “deserve,” “supposed to,” “should be,” and the granddaddy of them all, “if only,”— is nothing but a heart breaker. Plans based on what is, on the other hand, work.

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6 “Dosa” Pembunuh Karir

careers & jobs

Ketika sudah lulus dari universitas, kita pasti memasukkan kata “karir” dalam kamus hidup kita. Dan sebenarnya, apapun yang kita harapkan dari karir tsb, pasti ujung-ujungnya merujuk pada perkembangan, kemajuan dan peningkatan ke arah yang lebih baik dan menjanjikan. Namun, kita juga perlu mengenali faktor-faktor penghambatnya. Dengan mengenalinya sejak dini, kita akan dapat menghindar dari kemungkinan kegagalan yang tidak diperhitungkan.

Setidaknya ada 6 “dosa” yang harus dihindari di tempat kerja. Kalau tidak, 6 hal itu tidak hanya jadi perintang, melainkan bahkan juga akan membunuh karir kita.

1. Bangga

Keberhasilan demi keberhasilan di tempat kerja membuat Anda merasa luar biasa sehingga cenderung mengecilkan fakta bahwa itu semua tak lepas dari dukungan atau pun asistensi orang-orang di sekitar Anda, dan khususnya mereka yang berada di bawah Anda. Anda pun menjadi seorang yang egosentris, dam lambat-laun – mungkin tanpa Anda sadari – mulai meremehkan dukungan orang lain. Kebanggaan pada diri yang berlebihan akan mematikan semangat tim yang hakikatnya dibangun dari bawah dan bisa mempercepat laju karir seseorang. Merasa diri adalah bagian dari kesatuan sebuah tim, akan memberi sukses yang berjangka panjang.

2. Iri Hati

Penghargaan kepada individu diberikan oleh perusahaan berdasarkan prestasi yang dicapai oleh yang bersangkutan. Tapi, Anda selalu mempertanyakan, “Apa dia pantas mendapatkannya?” dan lalu merasa, “Saya lebih pantas.” Perasaan seperti itu bisa merusak dan menjauhkan Anda dari kemampuan untuk fokus pada tugas dan tanggung jawab yang ada di tangan Anda sendiri. Menjadi orang yang selalu mencemburui orang lain di tempat kerja bisa menyabotase harga diri Anda. Dan, harga diri adalah karakteristik penting dari setiap pekerja atau pun eksekutif yang sukses. Daripada iri hati, lebih baik saling bergandeng tangan bahu-membahu, dan itu bisa memotivasi kerja menuju sukses.

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Walk the Path You Choose, Not Someone Else’s

The Path

Recently, I got training about Self Development, you know, about Life path or something like that. I’ve noticed, the whole concept is the same. At least, almost same as my principle towards life.. Well, I guess, I just want to share it. I hope it’s useful, especially for me.. 🙂

Admit or not, We are a product of our environment. It is true that we are shaped by environment, our parents, teachers, and friends. The question is, can we break from this conditioning or is it permanent?

Below is a few things so we can walk the path that we choose, not just follow others..

1) Plan The Path

One of the greatest methods to walk your Path is to plan that Path. People who seem destined to walk a Path set by someone else, do so because they fail to think outside the box they have been put in. They accept the Path placed before them and never question or envision it any differently. Those who break free, see the vision of their dreams and desires, not as some fairytale, but as something that can be achieved, something to make plans toward.

Do you walk a life of no planning, or do you walk the Path you choose?
Do you see your dreams as attainable, and work toward them, or mere fantasies?

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My Movie Collection : A Beautiful Mind

A Beautiful Mind

My Rating : 9.9 / 10
Genre : Biography, Drama
Plot Keywords : Nobel Prize, Based on True Story
More Info : here at IMDB



A Beautiful Mind was by far the most original, intelligent and entertaining movie I have ever seen. I have seen a lot of movies in my time, but this movie just took me by storm. Its uniqueness, ironically enough because it was based on a real life situation.

This movie provided a brilliant (pardon the pun) insight into many aspects of a genius at work. And, I think, this movie is by far one of the most compelling movies of our generation. It’s really more than deserved to be included on my collection list. 🙂

It touched me on many levels. The psychology of the movie was intriguing, the mathematical philosophies was realistic, and the icing on the cake making the movie stand out was surprisingly the humanistic side of Love. While love is a common basis in most movies, the interaction of this theme with other aspects of the plot was planned phenomenally.



The Only Thing Greater Than the Power of Mind is the Courage of Heart..
He Saw The World In A Way No One Could Have Imagined..
I need to believe that something extra ordinary is possible…

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